Your Brain Can Turn Pain Up, or Turn It Down

The Surprising Connection Between Your Brain and Pain

I have dealt with chronic pain since I had a fall in 1996. Over the years, I have tried many things to improve, fix or recover from this issue. Learning the connection between brain and pain has been a game-changer.

Pain is not produced by the injured tissue alone. It’s interpreted and regulated by the brain and nervous system. The limbic system is an important part of that process.

When you experience fear, worry, anger, or ongoing stress, the brain can interpret those thoughts as a threat. This can activate the limbic system and stress response, increasing nervous-system arousal. When the body stays in that heightened state, pain signals can become more noticeable or intense.

By pushing through our body’s signals to get rest, take a break, or eat a snack, we are emptying the bank of reserves beyond what the body can deal with. In this modern world, we can be pulled to “de-self” and get projects done. If you are the type that enjoys serving and helping others, the struggle with saying “no” is real. This is how people like me end up with autoimmune problems that require more self care. When you refuse to say no and end up with a pain spell, illness, or common cold...think of it as a gift from your body to force you into more self care.

The limbic system (the part of your brain involved in emotion, threat detection, and memory) interacts directly with how your brain processes pain. That’s why the same physical injury can feel very different depending on your stress level, emotional state, sleep, and sense of safety.

Learning to regulate stress and change your relationship with frightening or catastrophic thoughts can be another piece of turning the pain volume down.

I know this sounds a lot like, “this is your fault.” It isn’t. The pain is real. What you have some influence over is how your nervous system responds to it. That’s different from ignoring it or pushing through.

From time to time in my chronic pain journey, I would try a suggestion from someone to influence my daily pain. One of the first game-changers for me was a practical workbook about managing pain. In this book, the writer who was a physician mentioned a section on the limbic system. I had never heard about my pain being affected whatsoever by my thoughts before. This is very different from being told, “it’s all in your head.”

Practicing self-talk to bypass the limbic system.

I discovered this to be an easy hack. I could do it in the car, in bed, or pretty much anywhere at any time.

What I did.

I started with a sentence I would say to myself. “It’s just pain, it’s not going to hurt me, it’s not going to hurt me.” Very simple, to the point, and easy to remind myself. I noticed that using this mantra helped me calm down and relax.

What I took away from practicing this mantra was that it actually worked.

How the limbic system works:

Your brain produces pain when it decides something in your body might be a threat. The limbic system helps determine how serious that threat is. When it reads danger as high, it turns up your sensitivity to pain. When you create a sense of safety through breathing, relaxation, or focused attention, you give your brain a reason to turn that signal back down.

5 Quick Ways to Use Your Brain to Calm Pain Signals

1. Slow your breathing.
   Deep, slow breathing tells the brain you are safe, helping shift the nervous system out of “fight-or-flight” mode and turn down pain sensitivity. Try setting an alarm for five minutes and breathe. I use this hack daily.

2. Change the story around the pain.
   Fearful thoughts like “Something is terribly wrong” can amplify pain. Reminding yourself “This hurts, but I am safe and I can help my body calm down” can reduce the threat signal.

3. Focus your attention elsewhere.
   The brain has limited attention. Engaging in conversation, music, a puzzle, or another activity can decrease how much attention the brain gives the pain signal.

4. Relax your muscles.
   Pain often causes unconscious muscle guarding, which can create more tension and pain. Deliberately relaxing your jaw, shoulders, hands, and other tense areas can help interrupt that cycle.

5. Give your brain evidence of safety.
   Gentle movement, warmth, comfortable surroundings, and positive experiences can tell the brain, “I can move and function without danger.” Over time, this can help calm an overprotective pain response.

The Key Idea: Pain is real, but the brain helps decide how strongly you experience the signal.

Pain is real, and inflammation is an important part of your body’s healing response. But when the pain and inflammation signals stay turned up, your nervous system can become more sensitive.

If you’re ready to understand what may be keeping those signals elevated and learn practical ways to calm them, let’s work together. Schedule your Free Discovery Call today.

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